Referring to friendship, we often focus on building relationships with others and we always forget the essential first step:being friends of ourselves. This is the most important first step if you want to have good relationships with others. How can you be friends of others if you are not friends of yourselves?

　　To be a friend of yourself that you should always care about yourself and be kind to yourself. To be a friend of yourself can help you better understand your friends around you and bring more happiness to you and your friends. Others may not know every thing about you and they can't always pat attention to you, so you have to do these things yourselves. You must be good to yourself when your friends are not around you. Sometimes, it's yourself who can pull you out from trouble or upset.